I can’t really think of anything to write for the last day of the 30 Days of Kink challenge.

Soooo. If anyone wants to ask me anything as a substitute, please do.

30 Days of Kink: Day 29:

Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Yes, Kitten, or when I’ve displeased my Master I’m demoted down to Cat. 

Titles are up to the people in the particular relationship. I actually like titles, but that is only my opinion. 

30 Days of Kink: Day 28:

How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

It depends on my Master’s mood. I may be in normal dress (such as just jeans and a top), or a corset and a skirt, or nothing at all. I aim to please my Master, and my state of dress is something he has complete control over how I dress when we are together.

30 Days of Kink: Day 27:

Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Yes and no. Because most of my non-kink interests are inherent parts of my personality, they overlap. There will probably be more overlap once my Master and I are able to be together again. 

30 Days of Kink: Day 26:

What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

I’m fine with it. Considering both of the relationships I am in currently are both long distance, online play (BDSM or not) is the only option we have.

30 Days of Kink: Day 25:

How open are you about your kinks?

Online and with a couple people offline I am completely open about it. I’m not shy about talking about what I am and what I’m not into. I don’t really have anyone to be open about it offline, and it’s not something I can discuss with my family, so I’m not really that open offline.

30 Days of Kink: Day 24:

What qualities do you look for in a partner?

When I’m looking for a partner (which I generally don’t go searching for one), I don’t expressly look for a kinky person. I look for someone with a touch of crazy, to rival my own. I look for someone with a sense of humor, who can make me laugh and who will laugh with me. Someone who can comfort me, and I can do the same in return. I look for a balance. Someone similar to me, yet different. 

30 Days of Kink: Day 23:

Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Kinda I suppose. I’ve always been very open minded, and quite accepting. I suppose I’ve gotten more into doing research on things. I’ve known my Master for about 5 years, but have only been owned by him a little less than two months, so that is a bit of a change there. I’ve started to think of things more as to how my Master will feel about them, and that is providing a lot of the motivation I’ve been lacking to do things.

30 Days of Kink: Day 22:

What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Everyone always says communication for this one. While it is true that communication is very important, so are trust and having an open-mind. Sure, you and your partner may both be kinky, but if you don’t trust each other, then there is no way that you would be able to go through with playing healthily. If you aren’t open-minded, how do you expect to be able to grow as a couple and strengthen your bonds in the relationship? 

Sure, both trust and open-mindedness are important in a vanilla relationship, they aren’t as important as in a BDSM relationship. In a vanilla relationship, play doesn’t involve things that could be physical or mentally harmful. 

30 Days of Kink: Day 21:

Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

As of yet, I honestly haven’t read any BDSM books. I’m planning on investing some time into finding and reading one though.